Author: jamesdsouza76
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Sitting With the Empty Chair – A Meditation on Loss
Growth comes from painFrom everything it is knownAll it takes is for us to listenAnd integrate into the wholeNothing is unknown before usWe know what there is to doAnd though the loss defines usIt is not of us all too. This was inspired by an old friend Steven D’Souza (no relation). He helps leaders unlock…
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Every second counts (modelled after Mr Self Destruct by NIN)
V1 It hurts and I am not sure why (every second counts) For me it’s just another sign (every second counts) She tells me go and get it checked (every second counts) I know she’s right and don’t protest (every second counts) I never know what’s there to know Time flies cause every moment goes…
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Refuge
Feeling safe and warm In solitude Comfortable In diffusion Somewhat floating Being partly formed In fortitude Endurable In confusion Somewhat growing Thinking of no dawn In attitude Unfadeable In delusion Somewhat hoping Seeing others torn In disrepute Deplorable In seclusion Somewhat no thing
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Why Teachers Need To Connect With Their Purpose
“If you went to a grammar school why did you only become a teacher?” It was not an insult but a genuine question from a pupil. (And one pupils have asked a few times over the years). I wasn’t offended – it reminded me that my purpose was alive and well. Teaching is difficult, frustrating,…
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Leaders Want Ideas
When I was 21 and doing a student placement year as part of my degree, I had an experience of leadership that told me: “Leaders want ideas”. I had to write a project about my placement as part of my degree. I researched and wrote a detailed document all about the company. My first great boss…
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How To Make A Meeting Effective With One Simple Behaviour
Meetings can be useful. I know, I know – sometimes they are the bane of people’s lives. Not only in schools, but in many jobs. They can feel like: BUT there is one behaviour that can make an immediate difference as an attendee. It’s simple: giving my attention to the speaker. Whilst it’s simple, it’s not…